LADIES THIS IS FOR YOU!!! HERE ARE THE 10 RIDICULOUS REASONS WHY MOST MEN REFUSE TO USE C0ND-0MS EVEN WHEN HAVING S£X WITH STRANGERS or PR0ST1TUTES,… LADIES DON’T BE DECEIVED!!

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When Human Resource places C0N’D0MS in office washrooms, they all vanish in an hour. But you think Nairobians are using them? Hell no!

A survey conducted by UNAIDs revealed that most new couples only use pr0tecti0n on the first two days after hooking up and then bang! they are going ‘sk’in-on-sk’in’ like rabbits. If you think they visited a VCT first, you are crazy. Nairobians simply hate C0N’D0MS, never mind that annually, the government distributes 180,000 pieces of free rubber ‘begged’ from development partners.

Here is how it plays out. She whispers, “Babe, that thing feels like a paper bag. Are you okay?” And the man she met yesterday on Facebook lies, “I am a virgin and too big for these Chinese tu-things.” Never mind that last time he got tested was 2008. And before you know it, chlamydia, a bacteria or two, a nasty virus and unwanted babies are getting exchanged like no one’s business.
So what exactly makes Nairobians lose their guard when it comes to $ex? This week, we sampled some of the lame excuses that couples tinged with pride and bravado that make new lovers live by the reckless dictum, C0N’D0M come-C0N’D0M go.

1. Babe, I’m clean
This is the most common reason that people use to justify unprotected $ex. Paul Mwangi*, a public relations officer in a leading PR firm, reveals that he uses this phrase to sle’ep with any woman he meets. “Not that I’m proud of it, but sometimes that’s the only phrase that works. Somehow, every girl falls for it. I have never bothered to know my HIV status,” he said.
Tracy Mong’are, a fashion and design student at a city college believes that most men who use that phrase are most likely to infect you with either an STD or even HIV.

2. No repercussions yet? Let’s do it again!
Couples who spoke to The Nairobian claimed that after having unprotected $ex and one doesn’t become preg’nant or gets infected, then, there is always that ‘relief feel’. It is easy to go back to the cookie jar, again! ”

I once dated this man and every time we had $ex, I was scared of getting pre’gnant. We agreed on a family planning method just to be safe. I think I became too comfortable and it never crossed my mind he could infect me with HIV,” says Ann, adding, ” After doing it once with no consequence, individuals get braver or downright reckless.

He views are shared by Tom Ngao, an accountant. “I cannot have $ex with C0N’D0MS. Common! Not at my age! I always with’draw during $ex and when I fail to, then I ensure she swallows an emergency pill, which I always carry in my wallet,” he said.
Tom’s greatest fear is impre’gnating a girl. $exually Transmitted diseases are not part of his fears.

3. Too drunk to care
After a night of drowning vodka shots, most men will not remember to wear a C0N’D0M, leave alone the name of their chips funga.
” Last week, I meet this hot girl in the club. I was so high and when I got home, I couldn’t even remember where I hid my packet of C0N’D0MS. We had unprotected S3’X and I woke up cursing in the morning. I was shocked since I consider myself very careful,” Mark Kamaua told The Nairobiwired.
In 2011, Canadian researchers looked at 12 studies that examined the link between people’s blood alcohol content (BAC) and they likelihood of using C0N’D0MS during $ex. The researchers split the participants into two groups, and asked one group consume alcohol, while the other group did not drink.
Findings from the research according to Jürgen Rehm, the director of the Social and Epidemiological Research at Canada’s Centre for Addiction and Mental Health, revealed that “Alcohol influenced their decision processes.” Participants who took alcohol were more likely to have unprotected S3’X than the sober ones.

4. A baby is unity, right?
Most women confessed to engaging in unprotected S3’X to ‘trap’ a man with a baby.
When the biological clock is ticking and there is no man in the horizon, then, most women will try their luck with any man that comes their way. ”
I had just turned 34 and I had just broken up with my man. I was desperate for a baby. I had too much pressure from my parents and friends. The next man that I met, I sweet- talked him not to use C0N’D0MS. That is how I got pregnant,” says Ann.

5. No blood samples, quick visual HIV test will do
Despite the many HIV training that most Nairobians attend most couples still believe they can ‘visually’ detect someone who is HIV positive or not.
“My former boss, as educated as he was, believed that he could tell whether it was safe to have S3’X with a lady without a C0N’D0M. He used to say that a good woman is like a piece of meat at the butchery, you can tell from just a glance,” Enock Wandera Said.